The village

          When did we start becoming a culture of me first?   There is so much information out there these days on the state of the Union;  the economy, the public school system, the fall of the family unit, crime, etc. etc.   All of these are bits and pieces of the bigger picture.
           I think the real problem is stemming from our inability to help each other.   Mass media has not only opened up oportunity's for greater communication but has also bread a whole generation who is afraid to speak.  Speak up for themselves, speak up for others, and just speak their mind in general.  
          Historically, when there is a need to take control of a culture, education is the first thing that is taken away from the people.  Thank fully in America there are laws that prohibit that, but they can control the education you choose to recieve.   It is easy to sit back and complain about the educational system (at any level).  But how many of us actually go to the source of the problem and express our opinions?  Freedom of speech does not mean complaining to those who have no power over a situation, it means being able to express your opinion to those who do with out fear.
          There is a saying,"It is not what you say but how you say it."  Bernie mac also said it.  Say what you think and feel with humor, a smile, politeness, respect, and most importanty with confidence and peace and there is almost nothing that you can not say.   Start by listening to everyone.    
          Todays challange.  Go out there and talk to everyone you meet.  Smile at everyone.   Speak with respect when faced with a wrong.  Speak with respect and dignity in every situation.   Help a stranger.   Work from a place of love and compassion,
          It takes a village, be part of it and encourage others around you to do the same!