C'mon! You Can Do It!!

This one wont be too long at all.  A brief sharing of feelings/ opinion with some sites to go visit and then done.  Here we go.
What is up with so many people not being able to say something nice and leave it alone?  Or the praise is masked some how with sarcasm OR it is book ended with inappropriate humor and or inappropriate comments.  Just say something nice for crying out loud and leave it be! You will not explode.  Although!  I can pretty much guarentee that after praising some one things will change.  People will feel happier...may be that is what so many people are afraid of?  In a world where so many are accustomed to choosing to feel shitty perhaps feeling any other than like shit feels funny to them.  SO instead of going with a positive feeling that is the right thing to feel they tink what they are feeling is wrong and there fore being happy, and making some one else feel happy must be the wrong thing to say/do!?!  Pith of the Matter...Be happy its ok!  Make some one else feel happy.  It reduces stress.  Unless you want to feel like crap in which case..carry on.  But please carry on alone.
http://www.artofmanliness.com/2009/07/01/how-to-give-praise/
http://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/giving-praise.htm
http://bcmnc.blount.k12.al.us/praise_someone_today.htm
http://bcmnc.blount.k12.al.us/praise_someone_today.htm